Saturday, April 24, 2010

LayAkkah saYer???

oncE again...i'm asking dis question 2 myself...but...in a differeNt situatIOn...
lateLy...my cuzeN is havIng a little dilemma in her rElationship..
n she aSk my opiNion bOut it..
i may hAv saiD a lot of tHIngs dat I think was right...
a lOt of tHIngs dat came a cross my minD...
wat actuallY an ideal meanin of relationship to me..
n wat i sees as a happy relationship..
wat i think is best for hEr...
n wat i think one's should be wif...
n...
after a while....i was thinking..
am i in da position to giv out dis kind of advice tO sumone.....
i meaN..i may hav a visual of wat KInd of relationship
yg membawa kbahagiaan dunia n akhirat...ececece.
but...i myself...
never make any gewd decision regardin dis matter....
dis is da one thing dat i'm not gewd at...haha..
ok2..maybe they r other things dat i'm bad at..LOL
i myself r avoiding dis at this particular time...
but...a normal person...would hav lost to herself while battling wif their emotion..
no matter...how strong u wanted to be..
emotion is ur worst enemy..terutama kpd wanita....
still...now...maybe..
hurm...my point is...dO i have right to giv advice on dis...
well....
istiqarah is da best way...any decision is based on istiqarah..
hold on to dat....
wanita dikurniakan satoo akaal n sembilan nafsu...
disbbkn itoo wanita selaloo membuat kputusan mengikut perasaan...
wanita selalu terpengaruh dengan emosi dan perasaan mereka...
disebabkan itu kami tidak digalakkkan untuk mnjadi pemimpin..
tapi kami sebagai pembimbing..
kerana kami memiliki sifat yang lembut dan pnyayang....
jadi...sebagai wanita..
anda sgt bertuah...
n gunakan kelebihan yang dikurniakan NYA dgn sebaiknya...
make a wise decision.....
still..layakkah syer berkata-kata???



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